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When Christians get married in the church, they are not only legally, but married in the eyes of their God. So if they divorce, why is it they have to pay for legal fees but nothing is done to dissolve their relationship in the church? Does this mean that they are still married in their God's eyes? If so, then they are bigamists if/when they remarry. When Pagans marry (hand fast) to more than one, they are polyamoris, and since Christians think that this is extremely wrong, don't you think that this is exactly what they are doing when they divorce? And....since Pagans were here long before Christianity, it seems that they follow a lot of our traditions, so why not this? Pagans have a hand fasting ceremony (or, in our case, soul fasting) and if it doesn't work out, there is a hand parting and this is done in the eyes of our God/desses. Unlike Christians, the parting of ways is done with a very solemn attitude....no yelling, no trying to "screw the partner".
I would like to hear your comments on this.